Our bridesmaids said yes to standing beside you… not running your wedding day. And I see this ALL the time: “Can you just keep an eye on the time?” “Can you find the photographer?” “Can you fix this quickly?” “Can you check everyone is ready?” “Can you deal with this vendor?” It never feels like much in the moment… until your bridesmaids are suddenly not in your photos, not at cocktail hour, and constantly “sorting something out” behind the scenes. And that’s the part most brides don’t realise u